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About those ‘flying monkeys…”
(I published this post as I wrote it across the day yesterday. A fun experiment. But…
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Step 3: Reverse Victim/Oppressor
So far we’ve covered Deny and Attack of the DARVO method of coercive control. The way…
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Step 2: Attack
After an abuser who uses coercive control has denied any wrong doing on their part, they…
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Step One: Deny
People who are unable to demonstrate personal accountability in relationships of any kind (this can be…
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DARVO Frame & A Teaser
I’ll be using the DARVO framework to structure my next few posts about the early grooming…
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I know you love these posts, just don’t like them (redux)
Hi All, Appreciate the Love and support in the comments. And yes, it is still a…
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08/04/2026: Calcinatio
calcined; calcining transitive verb: to heat (something, such as inorganic materials) to a high temperature but without fusing…
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05/27/2026: Trial dates set!!!
Sorry for the delay. Life is grand, and this stuff ranks low…the only part that is…
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05/19/2026: Honey, Plea’se
The Defendant didn’t take the plea offer from the District Attorney today. She knew that no…
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05/04/2026: Finding a Good-Fit Therapist
Well, my established and excellent care team of professionals who are supporting me during this time…